Complicated intercultural relationship situation....your opinion?

Dear one, You are facing the same question so many faced before: Do you go with your heart or go with your head? Trouble is, which? My best advice in situations like this is to wait. Don't be pushed by your parents, your boy friend, friends or make a decision your not happy with. JUST WAIT!! Go to grad school away from as many of those influences as you can. Develop new friends. Learn a trade or profession. Be on your own. If he can wait for you and you still have love for him then you can make the choice to be together. But you need space. Need to know that there are other solutions, new things, new friends to find. You will grow up a little more and be able the really know what you want. Good luck nice lady, God bless.