It's long but I need help !!!Relationships?

Ok get this my ex boyfriend and I broke up because his mom didn't want us together..so basically to describe her she's harasses.. We dated for about six months n for the first couple of months through our relationship he was living with his father and he has no problem with us dating..we had a very good relationship and everything was great until...he got into a big argument with his dad about HUD prom expenses ..his dad changed his mind at the last minute and told him he couldn't go.So I went alone..and this is when all the problems began.He spent the weekend at his moms house ,needed extra clothes so his mom took him to his dads house.and let's just say he got put out at the end of the day.so he soon completely moved in with his mom. That's when everything changed.when we first chatted months before she said she wasn't aware that he had a girl and she really wanted to meet me.Keep in mind his father wouldnt let him back in the house to get the rest of his stuff including his shoes,the diamond earrings I brought him,the cologne I paid for and all of the other stuff! Shortly, she started harassing me! She went through his cell when he was SLEEPING and got both my number and my mothers.she complained multiple times that he is immature he isn't ready for a relationship he doesn't have a job, (he was a senior,and graduated the beginning of this June).she kept sneaking through his phone without his permission again and again!she kept telling me that she's Jehovah witness and doesn't condone in dating! I respected her religion but I didn't feel that it was right how she tried to force this religion on him and she was just getting him back into her life from three years.she also said she thinks I'm a pretty girl but explained that I sent him inn. Pictures! And I couldnt figure out what she was talking about.she said that I sent him pictures of my breast(HELLO!it's cleavage..not flashing anyone.)she told me that if I didn't leave her son alone and break up than she was going to PUT HIM OUT and SHOW MY FATHER my quote on quote inn. Pictures! I told her she was a grown woman and her picking a fight with me wasn't solving anything and I also told her she shouldn't threaten me! She told me it was a promise..so I took it upon myself to end the relationship because I didn't want him to get put out with no place to go! The next school day during one of his graduation practices, I written him a letter an put it in the locker explaining everything to him,because she told me not to talk to him at all!later on that Fay I walked in the cafe with my friend he came behind me and gave me a hug and had this look on his face like what's wron with her.i assumed he knew the deal because SHE TOLD ME AHE WOULD TELL HIM WERE OVER HERSELF! so evidetally he didnt Know...i was stock because i couldnt figure out what to do..so weeks and weeks went on and we still weren't communicating!and come to fin out he was upset I brushed him off(that's what he thought I was doing!)but yet he told my bff I gave int to his mom! So he had to know something..I was put through so much stress because of her!crying everyday and having random attitudes..we finally talked because I written him on Facebook,long story..but hes been acting brand new! Adding a bunch of girls,and talking to tris one particular girl and even his pictures are different! I've been trying to get him to come talk to me knowing he lives 10 minutes away and he set up a plan.. But he keeps making excuses! I wanted to get us on the right track so he can know everything,I can't keep expressing my feelings over Facebook!I feel betrayed because I did what ithought was best, because for the simple fact that he was going to ge put out and it's hurting me to see he's turning his back on me and doesn't know the full truth! Am I doing the right thing by trying to get him to talk to me in person?even I we don't work out at the end I just want him to know te truth..until then I'm not ready for any relationships..